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Review of The Lightning Thief: The Percy Jackson Musical

May 23, 2019 By Autumn Rose Reo Leave a Comment

Whether you know every word of Percy Jackson or just know it’s a book, The Lightning Thief: The Percy Jackson Musical is great show for the family and helps to open up difficult conversations.

Thank you to AT&T Performing Arts for sharing the arts in North Texas and this sponsored post.

First off: I’ve never read a Percy Jackson book in my life.

However, I have a truly committed fan in my 10-year-old son who has spoken non-stop about Percy and Greek mythology for months.

Photo: Jeremy Daniel

While he has always been my date/co-host for many movies, events, and even TV shows, we haven’t had a chance to spend as much time together…because growing up often means growing apart from your parents. At least in my two experiences (first as a kid and now as a parent.) Now we haven’t had any fights or issues, but he has interests outside of me and the ones I’ve presented and is beginning to cultivate his own personality. PLUS I’d be remiss to not mention just a few weeks ago he got to see “the movie” at school (you know the one where all the boys and girls are split into two rooms?)

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So needless to say, it’s been a heck of a few months talking about the topics that honestly all parents and kids dread. So when The Lightning Thief: The Percy Jackson Musical came across the schedule at AT&T Performing Arts, I had a feeling it was time for the boy and I to have some time together. To do something he enjoyed and let him take the reigns as the expert. And that he did – and much more.

Headed to the show he proceeded to get me updated on all storylines about Percy Jackson.

“See there’s a kid, Percy, he’s a half-blood, so he’s the son of…” he began.

Photo: Jeremy Daniel

About the Show

Anyone who does know Percy knows there’s nothing simple about the storyline (hence the very large novels in the library.) But even with the complex story, I would soon find during the musical (which should be noted is taken from the BOOK and not the MOVIE), would transcend into a myriad of starter topics of several conversations I’ve either wanted or have thought about talking with my kid about for months. And the cast just put it out there…easy for me to pick up and take home for later. And of course, many other opportunities to laugh, sometimes because I did and sometimes because I could see how tickled it made my son.

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While I won’t put any spoilers in here (at least I don’t think), I will share that the story begins where Percy goes to Camp Half-blood, a place for those children of the gods to be protected and to learn their skills among each other. So like many coming-of-age stories, you have characters with different backgrounds all trying to find their way in the “odyssey” of life. The cast of The Lightning Thief is very small, but that doesn’t limit the number of very unique and interested characters you’ll meet along the show (including one from North Texas.) However actor Ryan Knowles (who plays Chiron and many other characters) is what kept me laughing throughout the show from start to finish.

What to Expect

Like the cast, the set isn’t overly complicated with a simple backdrop that is used throughout the show. But honestly, with heavy discussions about dyslexia, ADHD, feeling alone, etc., you don’t need all the other stuff to cover it up. And the “interesting” props and light effects do make a big impact on advancing the show. While only a few “light” curse words were uttered at all through the musical, I feel like there were some parts (mostly when the entrance of two big characters appear) that are a little less appropriate for the littles, but only if they scare easily. Some sword action also adds to a little bit of violence in the story, but honestly, we’re talking Greek gods, so this isn’t doesn’t hold a candle to any of those books we read in school at this age.

Photo: Jeremy Daniel

What Did We Think

As for my son’s review of the show, I was able to capture him to give his thoughts right after the show. But to say it in his words, “It was awesome.” (He goes into more in his Instastories.) “…It speaks for itself.” When asked how many thumbs he says – “27 thumbs up.”

But for this mom, what I appreciated more was our ride home. All of a sudden in talking about the show, he seemed so at ease about discussing things on his mind and some of those more “difficult” topics, just began to flow. And while I don’t expect every conversation from here on out to be as easy, it was great to be able to able to have Percy Jackson as a platform for us to talk, learn and share together.

A few notes: if you haven’t read the book, it’s ok, you’ll still be able to enjoy the story. If you have read the books and/or enjoy mythology, you’ll like this musical in a different way. If you don’t like musicals, well, it’s a musical, but it’s got some great acting and fun plot lines that make it enjoyable between the show.

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Changing Face of Arlington: New Places to Visit in Arlington

May 14, 2019 By Autumn Rose Reo 2 Comments

Think Arlington is nothing but ball games and bumper cars? Actually this once-called suburb is literally in the middle of it all. Here’s our guide to some of our favorite Must-Go Places to Go in Arlington.

This is part of a #mamachallenge sponsored series to show that class, convenience and community come together perfectly at Park Place Motorcars Arlington.

When I moved to Arlington over 15 years ago I had only two things on my mind: how close was it to the airport and that a drive down Green Oaks faintly reminded me of the hill country. So I got a apartment as a temporary plan until I figured out where I wanted to live for real.

And then I never left.

I admit Arlington has undergone some serious changes. I always loved that the Ballpark was here and Six Flags Over Texas was just out my front door (literally), but the times have changed. What used to seem like an escape from the big cities of Dallas and Fort Worth, we now have some of the coolest spots in DFW to go…and right here in A-Town. So now when people come to town or even those Arlingtonians that haven’t had a chance to try them out, I feel like I have to give them a run down of where to go.

Disclaimer: this list isn’t the full run down of everything you need to go when you’re Arlington, Texas. Consider it your starter list of what’s in North and Downtown Arlington…And there are more popping up everyday and many that will open their doors soon. So until you get to chow down on Hurtado BBQ at Urban Union next spring or lay by the pool at the new ultra-luxe Live! by Loews hotel this summer, get ready for fun in Arlington.

New Must-Go Places to Go in Arlington

Texas Live!

Head to the Entertainment District and you can’t miss this one! Right in the middle of AT&T Stadium (aka Dallas Cowboys home turf/Jerry World/The Death Star) and Texas Rangers Globe Life Park (and the new Globe Life Field in 2020) is Texas Live! Y’all 200,000 sq. ft. of food, entertainment, live music, games and more, all parties begin and end here. With 10 concepts, including a huge PBR Cowboy Bar, Guy Fieri’s Taco Joint, and two different eateries from legendary sports stars Dallas Cowboys Troy Aikman (Troy’s – known for it’s big ass burgers and margaritas) and Texas Rangers Pudge Rodriguez (Pudge’s Pizza.)

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Candlelite Inn Restaurant

Since 1957 the Candlelite Inn Restaurant has been a mainstay in Arlington. Serving pizza, Tex-Mex and steak, this “eclectic” destination has many other claims to fame including its Guacamole Salad. So close to AT&T Stadium this gem should never be overlooked to host your own small party any day of the week especially with its schedule of live music.

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Arlington Museum of Art

Yes, we have an art museum in Arlington. While it does house some cool exhibits, it’s also the site to some rather cool events like yoga and kids’ art camps. Plus you can rent space for your own event including a rooftop deck that looks over Arlington (yes, it’s pretty cool.) And don’t forget to catch the artwork on the outside too – including one of the cool “The Star of Texas” installations and this mural completed by KABOO.

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Actually there are several murals throughout Downtown Arlington, so take your town when you ’round the corner because you’ll never know where you’ll find them (like this one at Urban Union!)

Urban Union

While Urban Union is technically at development, I like to call it a neighborhood of unique businesses all geared to making your life better and more enjoyable. There’s food (lots of food), there’s drink (there’s lots of drink), there’s art, there’s business, and there’s exercise – all in an renovated, pedestrian-friendly space found between Division and Abram.

Legal Draft

Anchored by Legal Draft Beer Co., if you officially are trying to find where the locals hangout when the tourists come to town, this is it. A true, working craft brewery by a former lawyer and a former medical logistics pro, Legal Draft has become the home of city events, family reunions, art projects, and everything in between. Not to mention the beer is legitimately really good, with several on tap and available seasonally. And the little ones (or DDs) can enjoy the mootbeer (one of several puns you’ll find inside this legal-industry space.)

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The Tipsy Oak

Just as the name implies, there are trees here. And upon occasion, you may find yourself celebrating with a few adult refreshments while trying to land a respectable score of cornhole. I gotta admit, I somehow always find myself here. If the short rib grilled cheese isn’t enough to drive you to this “little cabin in the woods,” the bloody mary will. It’s actually not a bloody mary, but more of a cocktail and a meal in one with a thick slice of chicken fried bacon. MMM. Go for the poutine, too. Just remember if you do enjoy yourself, Uber is just a short click away.

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Inspirations Catering and Gourmet Food Shop

Can you say CHARCUTERIE? Don’t worry, you don’t have to in order to enjoy the amazing cheese, meats, and other board accoutrements. Inspirations Catering and Gourmet Food Shop hosts some of the coolest (and most delicious) events in town with monthly pairing parties and cheese board parties to show you how to make yours look as good as it taste. Hosting your own party soon? Let Kristene, literally the hostess with the mostess, and her team put together the menu for the most beautiful presentation (all sizes need apply.) No events on your calendar – just hungry? Head in Wednesday – Saturday to pick up a grab and go box with all the best tastes of meat, cheeses and more for lunch or snack. (My favorite? They’re all good.)

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Sugar Bee Sweets Bakery

This sweet spot may sound familiar as it was featured on the Cooking Channel. And one time inside this bakery and breakfast spot will help you see why you can never say no. Everything is almost too beautiful to eat, but one small nibble and you won’t be able to stop. From beautiful multi-tiered wedding cakes to cookies, cupcakes, scones, and more, Sugar Bees will keep that sweet tooth full. Thankfully they serve coffee too so you break between treats.

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4 Kahunas Tiki Bar

Ever been to a tiki bar? It’s an experience in itself. This nationally recognized lounge is full of fun and surprises as these just aren’t drinks, but entertainment each time you order one with fire, flowers, fruit and more taking the limelight as its crafted by the mixologists that make them. Want to fire up a party – this is it. Need to get the flame burning? One or two of these will do it for you with juices, exotic flavors and liquors. (Remember, there’s a reason they call it a “Painkiller.”) But remember to keep the kids at home because this is a 21 year old and up. (And you can head next door to Cartel Taco Bar for some great tacos and queso before or after a stop here.)

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Other new places not to miss in Arlington:

Urban Alchemy Coffee and Wine Bar
Truth Vinyl
Free Play
Cane Russo (coming soon)
Lonestar Axe Throwing (coming soon)
Hurtado BBQ (coming soon)

Places you should always visit in Arlington:

Entertainment District (Six Flags Over Texas, Globe Life Park / Field, and AT&T Stadium)
Levitt Pavilion
Park Place Motorcars Arlington

Ready to ride around Arlington in style? Then buy a car the smart way with these #mamachallenge tips.

Park Place Motorcars Arlington
4201 Beltway Pl
Arlington, TX 76018
(877) 560-1743

How to Buy a Car the Smart Way

April 18, 2019 By Autumn Rose Reo 3 Comments

In the market to buy car? At some point most of us are, so learn How to Buy a Car the Smart Way.

This is part of a #mamachallenge sponsored series to show that class, convenience and community come together perfectly at Park Place Motorcars Arlington.

I remember the first time I bought a car by myself. I didn’t realize at all what I was doing, but I felt that I needed to be strong and hopefully not get charged a crazy amount. Of course this was before I had a family, advanced technology and GPS entered the market, and there were so many resources so we could do some homework.

Thankfully, the situation turned out ok, but I’ll be honest there are so many things I could’ve done better and have learned since then to do and not to do when it comes to buying a car. And believe me – it’s not just about the car when it comes to making the best choice for your auto purchase…it’s also about the entire experience (and paying for it) that is important. With all your life-changing scenarios and needs, it’s important to reassess the process. So learn from this mama how to buy a car the smart way.

Let’s break it down to basics.

Define Your Need

To me this is the most important part and should be done before you even start looking at a car. If you can narrow down what you need vs. what you want early in the process, the rest of the other steps are a walk in the park. Depending on where you are in your life, you could have very specific needs (like lots of room for your little people) and perhaps you could really crave a car that looks good and drives fast.

So ask yourself these questions:

Size:

What size do you need? Who is going to be in this car and how is it going to be used?

Budget:

How much do you want to pay for a car and be comfortable with the amount (remember, there’s maintenance, insurance, etc. to consider as well?)

A rule of thumb is to spend around 20% or less of your take home pay on a car. However, that’s not always feasible for everyone depending on what expenses you have to manage. If you have kids, you know what I mean.

If you have a trade-in, that definitely changes the bottom line as well depending on what it is you have to pay. When you look at sealing the deal (see step below), you should know the value of your car by also doing some research (but take into consideration what condition your car is in, so you don’t always get the price it says.)

A rule of thumb is to spend around 20% or less of your take home pay on a car. However, that’s not always feasible for everyone depending on what expenses you have to manage.

Dealbreakers:

These are the things you NEED to have in the car like – needs to have four doors vs. two, must have lots of truck space, has GPS, is small so you can park it, etc.

Nice-to-Haves:

This is the WANT part – like the car needs to hav a sunroof, needs Apple Car Play, etc.

Then you have the hard part of prioritizing what you think is the most important thing to you (and these might change, too.)

If you noticed I didn’t ask two big questions here – do you want to buy new or pre-owned AND buy vs. lease. I personally think most people have a biased against both and a preconceived notion on how they work (often you replicate the buying tendency of your parents in this area.) Honestly, there are benefits and challenges to both.

A little note here: A lot of places will tell you to start looking at cars first. The reason I suggest you take the time to define your need is a lot like buying a house. After you start looking at several models, you’re willing to change what you need and what you’ll pay once you see what’s out there. And two things will happen: you’ll either settle for the most inexpensive version because you don’t want to pay much and therefore buy a car that ultimately won’t make you happy OR you’ll buy too much car and every month have to work at making the payment.

When you do the work you’ll be able to find a car that you’ll love and can afford (and yes, you can find that!)

Research

Now this is where you get to have some fun. This is the part of the process that you can get online, ask questions and research away. Once you’ve pegged down what you need (and what’s the icing on the cake), start seeing what’s out there. Visit a car show, get to Google, and ask your friends (they’ve already done some of the work for you so ask them what they like about their car and what they don’t.) Now what you find at this point doesn’t mean that they are your only options, but they give you an idea of what you’re realistically looking for and answer some of the other questions like colors, interiors, technology (this is a biggie for me.)

What I can’t just head to the dealership and start buying a car?

You absolutely can! But I’d at least have your needs, wants and how much you can pay in mind when you go. However, if money is you have huge deal breaker for you, you might need to look at your finances first (see next step below.) However, if there’s a range, you might be surprised by what you’ll find out you like vs. not like in a car when you go shopping. Your sales representative (mine is Ken and he’s amazing) is going to ask you what you’re looking for, so having your needs / wants list already set is so helpful, so they can really target what you needs vs. you having too much fun spending time driving a car you know you won’t buy in the long run (and wasting time!)

Which leads me to an even more important question: Where should you buy your car?

There are many options available to how and where to buy a car, but make sure to do your homework services like online-only car sales. While I know it’s an option for some, for me, I want a person to talk to about the car, to show me how it works (I once spent :30 minutes once trying to figure out how to open the hood), and a physical place to go when there’s a problem. That’s a dealership.

Dealerships

When choosing a dealership, you need to a little work there, too. It’s not just what’s closest or where you bought your last car that is an option. Some dealerships are much more invested in service than just being a place that sells cars. Many of them take great pride in the process of having a car, the customers that buy them, and hopefully, that you’re a client for life.

For example at Park Place Dealerships (which has 24 locations throughout DFW), #MyParkPlace is an entire campaign showing clients that not only have bought a car with Park Place, but have bought multiple cars for many years because of their exceptional service. From the moment you head to the door, there’s someone available to show you cars or if you prefer, lets you peruse the lot. And if you’re the kind of person that wants to do as much as much as possible online before you even visit the dealership, you can work with the Internet Sales Manager who can help you through the whole process online until it’s time to pick up the car!

But there are some other really good reasons to head to Park Place Motorcars especially the one I visit in Arlington.

Just take a look in their Customer Service Area and you’ll see what looks like the most beautiful coffee shop, sports bar, and even a space for the kids. With beverages available, plentiful seating options, TVs (just count how many), and free WiFi, you can get your car washed and maintenanced in the ultimate comfortable setting. I know from my own experiences, that is not normally the case at other dealerships, waiting for eight hours in a loud, cramped service center. I admit in my experience at Park Place, I actually waited a few minutes after my car was done because I didn’t want to leave and I was getting work done. But on days you can’t wait, Park Place customers also get access to loaner vehicles when they get services.

Paying for It

Okay no one wants to have this conversation, right? It’s the more adult part of the car-buying process…how are you going to pay for it?

First, be real with yourself. Know your credit score and where you sit with your finances. Then consider pre-financing. Whether than pick a car and wait to see if you can pay for it – you can get online and begin the process NOW so you know what you can pay before you start. Park Place Arlington has an online option so it’s quick and easy, but if you prefer, there are other options available like our bank / credit union, Lending Tree, etc. that can walk you through your process.

In the case you need a co-signer/co-buyer, do them a courtesy and ask BEFORE you are ready to sign on a car. Give them the opportunity to make a decision that’s good for them as well in a reasonable time AND that they can also see their finances are also in order. Plus if they know you’ve been planned out and taken the time to make your car choice, they’ll see you’re going to be responsible with their money and where their name is attached.

For me, I know my habits and I like the technology in a car so having a new car is important for the latest and greatest in tech. But for other people it’s having a specific kind of car, like a beautiful Mercedes or a Lexus that drives their leading priorities. But I’ve learned that it’s possible to have your cake and eat it too.

New / Preowned

Did you know that Park Place Arlington has both pre-owned and new cars available? So if you really have your heart set on a Land Rover, or a Ford F-150, or even that Jaguar convertible, they have it available! These pre-owned cars are Certified so that you know that they have been inspected, services, and restored to a like-new condition. And you still get the benefits of being a Park Place client.

Lease vs. Own

So do you want to own or lease? Again, there are advantages and disadvantages to both. I lease my car because I always want a newer car with the most updated technology that has a warranty, but I also need to keep my payments reasonable. My husband’s car is owned because he loves it and so he can add what he wants to it, so we do both.

Try it Out

Whatever you do, you must drive the car. Yep, take that test drive. Even if you have to have it ordered in, you need to make sure you’ve put your eyes on it and driven the car. And here’s why – I once had a car I requested in black that I literally was signing the documents on my car to purchase, but when I saw the car, I saw that the “black car” was actually navy. While somewhere on the documents it said navy, the sales rep thought it was black, too.

But that’s definitely not the only reason to test drive the car. If possible, don’t just drive it around the lot – make sure you’ve driven it on the highway, on the access road, and my favorite learning opportunity, your garage. Yes, once upon another time I bought a car that didn’t fit in my garage. Nothing is worse than realizing you bought a car that doesn’t work for you. You need the kids to get in it if you’re buying a family car including your spouse (hey, they need to fit too.) And if it’s just you and your dog, you might want to make sure they fit too!

Not only do you want to drive it, but turn on the radio, try out the trunk / back area, use the buttons – love this car.

Americans spend on average 293 hours in their car a year.
So you better like what you’re driving.

Seal the Deal

So you found it – your car! Congrats we’re almost there. There’s just a few more steps to the finish line!

Once you have the car in mind and you’re ready to take the plunge, make sure to confirm the rate and price with the lender. Also, if you have a trade-in, time to level up and see how much the dealership is willing to give you for the car so you can leverage your final payment price!

Another benefit of working with a sales representative at a dealership like Ken at Park Place Arlington is that you can discuss all the warranties, special offers, benefits of the dealership and how they work. If Roadside Assistance is part of your deal, make sure you understand how it works, how to contact them, etc.

Once you’ve settled on the price and signed the dotted line, make sure to get the lowdown on all of the following:

Have your sales representative do show and tell! Have them show you how and set up all your technology before you leave the lot.
Have your chair set perfect for you, get the radio set, ask how things work! This is why you have a sales rep – they’re there to help you!
And while you’re looking at the car, make sure you know how to manage that spare tire – just in case!

Yep, it’s that easy…ha! Actually buying a car can be a great process or a horrible one, but with a little planning and help (hello, Park Place Arlington), you can be ready to hit the road in no time!

Park Place Motorcars Arlington
4201 Beltway Pl
Arlington, TX 76018
(877) 560-1743

Ibi: Smart Photo Storage for Who You Want to Share It With

March 23, 2019 By Autumn Rose Reo Leave a Comment

Have photos in the cloud, sky, on your computer and everywhere else? Get it together in one spot and share your photos too with ibi smart photo storage.

This post was sponsored by the makers of ibi, who also sent me the product for review.

I am an admitted pack rat.

I have boxes in my office dedicated to putting the kids’ school crafts, remnants of cute notes they’ve drawn, greeting cards they’ve received, ticket stubs and of course, all their class photos.

That’s the kids’ boxes – you should see the ones I have for myself and for work.

So it’s no secret that my phone’s photo album acts like a digital version of all the photos and events of our lives. Then add on an event I’m covering or an impromptu blog post or social media opportunity and photos stack up quick.

Currently my phone reads at 20,000+ photos and 2,000+ videos.
2500 are just from the beginning of this year.

And before you ask, yes, I also back up.

There’s iCloud, Dropbox, and Box. Hey I even have some CDs burned with old photos like from our trip to Italy, our wedding in Puerto Vallarta, and Jackson’s once-in-a-lifetime Wish Trip to Disney World. And I pay for all the subscriptions and their expanded storage.

And none of them are complete collections.

And that’s before you count the backup boxes we also have of the actual photos. Then to share, I normally upload to Facebook to share with my network or send via text five at a time to my parents. And after all that, I’m spent and I don’t share much of anything else because it’s just a lot of work.

Another issue is that I don’t always want to share photos with everyone. I want to make sure that I documented the moment for me and my family, but it doesn’t mean I want to share it with my network of friends on social (work, church friends, or acquaintances.) Considering not every shot is award-winning and ready to be put on social, doesn’t mean that I don’t want to keep it and in some instances, share it.

Besides one day my kids will be on social and I know there are some shots they’d rather mom not share to the Interweb:)

Needless to say, it takes a lot to keep and share memories at your fingertips.

That’s why ibi might be your next best friend.

Don’t know ibi?

Well think of your own personal hub for all photos for all your devices that automatically makes sure your best moments are always saved, all in one place. But even better, ibi makes it easy to connect with your inner circle of family and friends (whomever you’d want) to receive photos, but not to everyone on your social media list. I mean there are times you want people on social to see that first day of school pic or maybe that travel shot you took when you get home from vacation, but with ibi, you can make sure it’s just your mom and dad or your sisters. And if you don’t want anyone but your hubs to see your shots, then don’t worry, you set up your circle to make sure it’s only who you want who can receive what photos you have on ibi.

Set up is a cinch…you just plug ibi in, download the app, and get ready to directly upload those photos. Done.

Hey, with all the other mamachallenges you have happening, if you snap that perfect shot, don’t you want to make sure you don’t lose it and most of all, don’t necessarily share it with the world?

That’s what ibi smart photo can do for you so you can keep taking the photos and enjoying them!

Stop the Business of Being Busy

March 19, 2019 By Autumn Rose Reo Leave a Comment

Feel like you’re always busy? Feel like you’re not busy enough? Quit the comparisons and stop the Business of Being Busy.

Thanks to McDonalds of North Texas for reminding all us ladies that we are more than enough, we’re worth it with this sponsored post.

I have a lot of quirks.

I hate the sound of repetitive tapping.

I despise people who stand up on airplanes when you land in hopes to be the first to deboard.

I cannot even handle it when people take phone calls in public places like the doctor’s office and talk like no one else is in the room.

I could keep going on for days, but probably the thing I hate to hear the most?

[yes, imagine this is me. Like right now. Or maybe you, but you get it.]

Hearing women rattle off how busy they are.

Yes, I said it. And oh yes, I’ve done it.

Hey I get it, we all have so much to do. Like crazy amounts of things – some because we have to, some because we volunteered to, some because we want to, and a lot because we just feel like we have no choice otherwise.

But why is it we feel so compelled to list it like a badge of honor? And then use it to make other people feel bad (or you feel bad from hearing it and think, “wow, I should be doing more!”)

It’s true, as women, especially those that are moms, we do a lot. No matter what we do in our personal or professional lives, most women don’t just have one job. We normally have like 3 or 4…or 5 or 6…well multiple jobs and many of them go unpaid. The Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development says women do more than 4.5 hours of work every day that is unpaid and it’s considered Women’s unpaid work is the backbone of the American economy. Says a lot, right?

But whether you have a big important job with a corner office or your window is the one you look out of every day as you nurse your kid, we work a lot and we wear a lot of hats…some we love, some we don’t, but it is what we do.

With the nature of my job and I often get asked, “what is it that you do?”

Sometimes, I just say marketing. But when the real answer is the only one that will do, I take a deep breathe and list off the list of what roles and responsibilities I have like a resume.

“…And oh yea, I have 2 kids and have been married since 2006.”

And it doesn’t even begin to really say what I do most days. But for every woman I know, that’s the case. We do it and we don’t even share the whole story because most of us don’t ever feel like it’s actually enough.

“I’m not working out enough.”

“I’m not volunteering enough.”

“I don’t cook enough.”

“I’m not home enough.”

“I’m not good enough.”

Man, the detriment we all do to ourselves with this thinking. But you know it’s true.

Being a woman and being a mom isn’t what we do, how much or how little, it’s how you live between the crazy that really matters.

For me:

It’s Sunday mornings when I steal a few moments of silence before my family wakes up wrapped up on the couch with nothing but silence.

It’s when I’ve had a super early morning, when I can stop through McDonalds and grab a medium cup of McCafè coffee (my favorite coffee bar none), hot and just the way I like it with three creamers. And then I can also grab hot breakfast for the kids and roll into the house just before they wake up to see a smile and the look of surprise!

It’s that opportunity when someone smiles at you or gives you a compliment or even better when you offer the smile that makes a big difference in your day and theirs!

Those are actually the sweet moments, especially those that you share with others, that bring us real joy that we should be judged by not the list of how much we do:)

This month McDonald’s all of us women and moms to share how you celebrate your own simple moments with LUNCH BUNCH! At each event, kids will be able to participate family friendly activities, including balloon twisters, face painters, arts and crafts and of course, to enjoy Play Place – to name a few! And you get a chance to talk with other women especially about women in business during Women’s History Month.

MARCH LUNCH BUNCH MEET UP

Tyler

Thursday, March 21, 2019 from 12-1 pm

McDonald’s at 4014 S. Broadway Avenue, Tyler, TX 75701

Dallas

Friday, March 22, 2019 from 12-1 pm

McDonald’s at 216 S. Coit Road, Plano, TX 75075

Plus everyone can try the newest menu offering, McCafé Donut Sticks. Made with golden-brown dough, sprinkled with cinnamon sugar and made fresh every morning (they are light as air!)

I hope you’ll join me in Dallas on Friday and to enter to win a $10 McDonald’s gift card!

For those of you that attend the event, you’ll be entered in a drawing for a McDonald’s gift card if you say you’re from mamachallenge.com and the mamachallenge winner will also be entered to win whether they’re in attendance or not!

ENTER TO WIN MCDONALD’S GIFT CARD

Apple Cinnamon Biscuits

January 29, 2019 By Autumn Rose Reo Leave a Comment

Like Lionel says, these Apple Cinnamon Biscuits are “easy like Sunday morning” (and so good to eat, too.)

Thanks to Envy Apples for reminding us that “apple a day…” especially when it’s as good as this one and this sponsored post.

While this year I decided not to concentrate on resolutions, I did make a set of goals of things I wanted to spend time working towards mastering in the kitchen. None of them were exotic, but what I felt any good southernern should know… Having a few recipes that you are known for that make people smile even before they open their eyes because the aroma has drifted them out of their slumber.

You know – things with carbs. And sugar. Ahhh.

The Golden Trifecta: Biscuits, Hot Rolls and ultimately, the omnipotent Cinnamon Rolls.

Likewise when Envy Apples invited me to enjoy a Central Market Cooking class featuring Envy Apples, this was the time to begin my challenge. But of course, not without enjoying a few new unique dishes made with the most envious of the apples, the Envy Apple.

So what makes an Envy apple so “envious?” It’s not just the aroma and taste (which is just the right amount of sweetness from the Braeburn and the Royal Gala), but the fact that it doesn’t turn brown as soon as you cut it! So it makes for the perfect ingredient from everything from a sangria to salad to soup (the butternut squash and apple soup below was bowlickin’ good although I was able to restrain myself.)

After my inspiring evening with all things apples, I was ready to put mine to work. Apparently, I wasn’t the only one that wanted to get their hands on them apples:)

This is the best $10 ever spent for this baby. It’s a no brainer if your eyes water when you cut onions. This is your answer to dicing!

Because I hadn’t even started my quest, I felt like I really needed to master the first, before moving on to the next baked good. That meant biscuits. And the cold air outside said biscuits, too. So that Sunday, biscuits were on the brain — but to sweeten the deal, I was adding a little sweetness with apples and cinnamon.

So off to races we went, mixing, kneading and making sure were to be quick, yet deliberate (so the bits of butter wouldn’t melt as we folded and rolled our dough.) Honestly, if you read through any good baked recipe, you’ll realize it’s not just the final result you’re after, it’s the lessons on life you learn when you finally master it that make it the perfect biscuit.)

Yep, there’s some deep stuff there.

But as soon as it’s done and you smell the combination of apples and cinnamon greet the air, you have found the promised land. Slather on some honey butter and it’s over (you’ll start eating these are breakfast but find a way to add them to your next meal (did someone say apple-cinnamon chicken biscuit?)

While I’ll admit, I still need to roll out some biscuits in my sleep and without referring to my recipe before I can call it mastery, these were a good milestone moment. Now off to make my Sangria with my Envy Apples.

Apple Cinnamon Biscuits

Author: Autumn Rose Reo of mamachallenge.com
Prep Time: 25 minutes
Cook Time: 15 minutes
Total Time: 40 minutes
Yield: 12-18

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Description

The perfect mix of apples + cinnamon all wrapped up in a warm, buttery biscuits. It’s what Sunday mornings are made for.

Ingredients

2 1/4 cups all-purpose flour

1/3 cup granulated sugar

1 tablespoon baking powder

1/2 teaspoon salt

1/2 teaspoon nutmeg

2 teaspoons cinnamon

5 tablespoons cold butter, cut into small pieces (pea sized and leave in fridge until ready to use.)

3/4 cup buttermilk

1 teaspoon vanilla extract

2 medium apples, peeled, cored, and chopped (about 1 1/2 cups)

Cinnamon sugar blend, for topping, optional or honey butter for glaze

Instructions

Heat the oven to 425 degrees F.
Line a baking sheet with a silicone baking mat or lightly grease.
In a large bowl, combine the flour, sugar, baking powder, salt, nutmeg, and 1 1/2 teaspoons of cinnamon.
With a pastry cutter or your fingers, work in the butter pieces until thoroughly mixed throughout dough. Stir in the finely chopped apples.
Combine the buttermilk and 1 teaspoon of vanilla; stir into the first mixture until all ingredients are moistened. Depending on moisture from the apples, a little more buttermilk or flour might be necessary.
Turn out onto a floured surface and knead a few times (5-8 times.) Pat into a circle about 3/4 inch thick and cut out with biscuit cutter.
Place on baking sheet. If you choose, add sugar/cinnamon mixture.
Bake for 12 to 14 minutes, until lightly browned.
Add honey butter after cooked and serve.

5 Holiday Reminders Every Mom Needs

December 20, 2018 By Autumn Rose Reo 76 Comments

Christmas is hard work. Take out the stress with Happy Cards and let the elves do the dirty work for a change.

Thanks to the elves at Happy Cards for sharing this sponsored post how we can all get a little more happy this holiday.

If you have scissors in your hands as your wrap one of the countless numbers of gifts under the tree or plotting the demise of your “Elf on the Shelf” while you prop it for the daily antic before your children wake up, then you need to stop.

I repeat: put down the scissors or the Elf. (Or in my case, both of them since the Elf was about to go down.)

For most mamas, Christmas is one of the best (and worst) times of the year. You may not admit it (at least not aloud), but while you love those uploading your annual Santa’s photos with the kids for everyone to see, Christmas is hard work.

Yes, I said it.

If Cheesecake Factory, Saks Fifth Avenue off 5th, Panera Bread, Sephora, SpaFinder.com, Bed, Bath and Beyond, and Lord & Taylor makes you happy, then just keep reading.

But before calling me a Grinch or a Scrooge, understand I love this time of year with beautiful decorations on everything from the fireplace to the mailbox, the look on the kids faces on Christmas morning when they unwrap the gifts, and all the other magic that comes with the holidays. But mama, you put in some serious work to make it all happen and you weren’t always smiling when you did it. Oh, I know I wasn’t…far from it.

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My ❤️is so full! Our first Christmas in our new neighborhood and carolers came with cookies and song. When I saw this moment at the door, the tears started flowing. It was like the moment the Grinch’s heart grew 10x. Pretty sure all my Christmas wishes have been granted. I’m a lucky lady. (Go to my Instastories to hear.) . . . #Christmas #carolers #holiday #dfw #dallasmoms #arlingtontx #viridiandfw #viridian #thisisarlington

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There’s nothing fun about interrupting the very precious hours of sleep you get for almost a month just to give life to a red inanimate “elf” with a creative theme that your kids will laugh at for :10 seconds in the morning.

Look closely. Very closely to see what’s happening to this Elf.

There’s nothing fun about climbing all over the outside (and inside) of your house while putting yourself in danger to put up lights, just to take them down again a month later.

There’s nothing fun about trying to get just the right something for that someone and then bracing yourself when you have to be around them (even if you don’t really like them.)

But for most moms, they wouldn’t have it any other way. Even for those of us that actually have to purchase our own gifts, wrap them to put under the tree, write our kids or spouses name on them, and then act like we’re surprised on Christmas morning. (Or in some cases, not get anything at all in your stocking because if you don’t do it, no one will.)

However, we also know that nothing’s going to change and if we want the magic of Christmas to happen (and I know I’m not letting go of it), then we feel we have to do it. #MOMGUILT is real and we all make us feel like it’s what you have to do.

But there are a couple of things you can do to put the HO-HO-HO back in the holidays rather than the BOO-HOO-HOO.

We all need to remember the following:

No one is thinking why you didn’t coordinate your wrapping paper under the tree once they open the gift.
There is no mom award given at the end of the holidays for making it the best Christmas ever.
If you don’t make it to every Christmas event on the list, no one is going to know.
If you don’t send out Christmas cards this year, you can post a photo on Facebook and call it done. Or send an Easter card or try just writing a letter.
You don’t need to work so hard to find the right gift. Gift cards really do make people happy, so buy it and be done.

Yes, gift cards. I know trying to find the “right card” is hard enough…but with Happy Cards, you can alleviate all that. Just pick one of the many cards and the giftee can choose what they want to get…and quite possibly more than one present. They can enjoy their favorite restaurant, start on the house project they’ve been waiting to do, or even get their resolutions moving – all with the Happy Card!

Remember, what your family really wants is a mama that’s happy, rested and wants to enjoy Christmas. And honestly, so do I. So we’re happy the little elves at Happy Cards are sharing a $100 Happy Lady Happy Card for one lucky mama.

So what are you waiting for? Enter below.

It’s just a click to get one step closer to a service from being a Happy Mama with a Happy Lady card from Happy Cards. And you have until Dec. 24 at midnight to enter. That’s all you have to do. (We’ll that and whatever you still have on your Christmas list – that probably isn’t necessary either.)

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McDonalds Gives More with #McGiveBack Campaign

November 9, 2018 By Autumn Rose Reo Leave a Comment

McDonalds gets into the spirit with its #McGiveBack campaign this holiday benefiting the community with Pennies for Pounds, RMHC’s Scholars Scholarship, and Veteran’s Day.

Thank you to McDonalds of North Texas for giving to the community and partnership with this sponsored post.

‘Tis the season for giving and the Golden Arches is giving out more than Happy Meals and Big Macs this November.

Veterans Day, Nov. 11, 2018

This Sunday, Nov. 11, the North Texas Owners of McDonald’s are honoring the selfless individuals who have given their lives to protect our country through service in the U.S. military. All active military and veterans can choose a complementary breakfast meal of their choice on Sunday, Nov. 11 when they visit their local McDonald’s. So help spread the word or take you favorite military service person or vet for breakfast to say thank you for all you’ve done to keep our country safe.

Pennies for Pounds

Those legendary french fries always bring a smile to your face, this November you have reason to smile even more with Pennies for Pounds. For every pound of french fries sold, McDonald’s in North Texas will donate two cents to the Ronald McDonald’s House Charities.

While many families thankfully don’t have to be impacted directly by the RMHC, you never know when you will. For instance, when Jackson was born with a CHD, as new parents we spent months at Children’s Medical Center (now Children Health.) While we were just a few miles from the hospital, there were parents just like us in the Heart Center, going through the same as us, that were too far from home and would sleep on recliners and bathe in a hospital bathroom.

One family we met from South America did this for months just hoping to get the best care for their children. However, this happens way more than you think it does, picking up their lives to care for their kids. Many times parents would leave their job to be with their child at the hospital or even worst, families were split, with one parent at the hospital, and another parent at home to take care of the other kids or keep at least one job. Already serving 38,000 families since its opening, the RMHC helps families like these to stay together during times like these by offering a housing for families with 52 private bedrooms and six transplant apartments. Additionally, the House contains everything to make life possible when families are going through so much at a hospital including:

multiple playrooms for kids of all ages and interests
a library
media room
craft room
Chapel
meditation garden
outdoor play areas
Additionally two large communal kitchens and dining room provide opportunities for the families to share the evening meal, which is provided 3 times a day by community volunteers, or to prepare their own food if they choose.

While the RMH is a wonderful place it takes much more to operate an offering of this size, it’s the hundreds of volunteers that support the RMHD’s annual operations and fundraising activities to serving families at the House, preparing meals, and hosting organized activities that keep life going when some much of your world can seem to be falling apart. While families are asked to give just $15 per night to stay, no one is ever turned away.

RMHC’s Scholars Scholarship

The only way I was able to go to college was through scholarships and this is still the case for thousands of families in North Texas. The Ronald McDonald House Charities® U.S. Scholarship program is designed to provide financial assistance to eligible graduating high school seniors who face limited access to educational and career opportunities. Scholarships are awarded by the local Ronald McDonald House Charities®, with support from Ronald McDonald House Charities® Global and McDonald’s Corporation. Students are selected, and awards are distributed based on demonstrated academic achievement, community involvement/leadership and financial need. Since 1988, RMHC of Greater North Texas has awarded 1,555 scholarships to high school seniors totaling $2,354,500.

This month when you roll in the drive thru window or come in to grab a quick bite, you can feel a little extra that McDonald’s is giving more to the community.

How to Handle the Germ Season (with Kids)

November 7, 2018 By Autumn Rose Reo 6 Comments

This post is sponsored by CareNow and SheKnows Media.

When you have kids, you have illness. While it’s never convenient to be sick, here’s How to Handle the Germ Season (with Kids.) Just remember help is just one click away with CareNow.

Before I had kids, I considered myself a reasonably healthy person. From time to time, I might have to handle the flu or a bothersome cough, but I rarely had to see a doctor unless it was for my annual exam.

Then I had kids.

Now it seems like I’m sick, they’re sick, dad gets sick and then we pass it around for fun. It’s like a bad game of Cupcake Walk except there’s nothing sweet about it.

There’s those times when a little TLC, chicken soup, and a weekend in bed only result in your kid waking up on a Monday morning with the voice of a raspy old lady saying “mama, I don’t feel good.”

Unfortunately, just because someone in your family is sick doesn’t mean that life doesn’t keep happening…like work meetings, school projects, and all the other stuff in between.

Bottom line: you gotta stop the sick cycle in its tracks.

While washing hands, covering your mouth when sneezing or coughing, and the rest can do a lot, it’s not always going to the trick.

That’s why CareNow has become a bookmark on my favorites.

When I feel (or see) something coming on, or need to arm my family for the upcoming flu season, I just check us in online and wait where we want to, in our home, instead of in a waiting room. Once we get the notice that the doctor is ready to see us, we head into our nearby CareNow.

Upon arrival, we can check in, get almost instant access to be seen by a medical professional, and then get the care (and the prescriptions) we need. Then we can head home and begin healing. Best of all, if you need to grab an immunization or even get your kid’s physical for school, you can get it done at CareNow too.

Yes, it’s that easy.
1. Check-in Online (you can do it from your phone.)
2. Head to the clinic when you receive a call/message.
3. Check in at the nearby CareNow and wait shortly to hear your name.
4. Get the care you need.
5. Check out and get on your way with life.

The fact that there’s not much paperwork to complete (you can do it once online and then it’s stored in your account) and the waiting room has coffee and wireless, makes CareNow our go to for when we need care NOW and on our schedule.

About CareNow

When you are sick or injured, the last thing you need is a long wait at the doctor’s office or emergency room. You deserve quality medical care that’s also convenient. That’s why CareNow is dedicated to reducing your wait while improving your health. Next time you or a loved one is under the weather, visit a CareNow urgent care clinic to feel better fast. With over 112 urgent care clinics around the United States and 30 locations in DFW, CareNow is ready to serve you near your home, workplace or school. Their clinics are open 7 days a week and stay open late to provide care when you need it the most.

Family Fun Comes to the Run: New Features at BMW Dallas Marathon

October 16, 2018 By Autumn Rose Reo Leave a Comment

Life may already seem like a race, but the BMW Dallas Marathon is the one all of you can win. Register now for new family events before the price increases! #RunBMWDALLAS.

Thanks to the BMW Dallas Marathon for creating more ways for families to be healthier together and this sponsored post.

BIG ANNOUNCEMENT: I’m running in the 48th annual BMW Dallas Marathon
…with my kids.

Crazy, right? Especially since we haven’t trained one little bit.

But since two years ago when I saw the look of so much happiness and so much accomplishment stretch across my son’s face as he crossed the finish line of his first race, I knew what running a race together can do for your heart, your mind, and your soul. (Talk about tear jerker!)

But let me be clear: We ARE participating in the BMW Dallas Marathon on Saturday, December 8 in the new Kids Races!

The Kids Races (100m dash, 400m dash, 800m dash and 1-mile) invite the whole family together to participate in all the races for just $10 for the kids (12 years and under) and parents can run with their kids for free. This is just one of the new Saturday events added this year that includes a 10K, 5K, 2-mile walk, and 2-Mile Dog Walk (even your dog can join!) Paired with getting a t-shirt and finisher’s medal the whole family can be a part of the fun.

After the races, we’re headed to the second day of the FREE Health & Fitness Expo across the street at the Kay Bailey Hutchison Convention Center. With “more than 40,000 attendees with 50-60 vendors catering to the health & fitness community within 100,000 square feet of Expo space,” we’re gonna double our steps that day (and learn a whole lot of info and load up on some fitness freebies). Plus with bounce houses, facepainting and other fun activities, the kids may never leave – and it’s ok since it’s free!)

BMW Dallas Marathon Health & Fitness Expo

When: Dec. Friday (11 am-7 pm) and Saturday (9 am-6 pm)

Where: Kay Bailey Hutchison Convention Center (Hall C)

What I also love about the BMW Dallas Marathon is that the proceeds go to support Scottish Rite Hospital, which is something I can share with my kids that their participation helps other children just like them to get the help they need.

Actually there are many ways to get moving with the BMW Dallas Marathon:

BMW 5K Social Runs

I actually came across this last year when I participated in the one near my house. I wasn’t sure what to expect with a social run, but we (around 400-500 of my newest friends) got a shirt, had snacks, did a timed-run, and then got to celebrate with some liquid carbs (beer) and snacks. So this year, I was quick to sign up – because these social runs happen across the metroplex AND they’re free. They’re limited registration though, so it’s good to get on these fast – especially since they’ve already begun! Get the details.

The Big One(s) – The Marathon, Half Marathon & Ultra Marathon (50K)

I might not be quite ready for this one in 2018, but it’s definitely on the bucket list (who’s with me?) On Sunday, December 9, take on Big D in a whole new way by running in the marathon, half-marathon, or the new ultra marathon (50 MILES!!!) races (just

The BMW Dallas Marathon makes it easy for us to work on something together, be a part of huge event in Dallas doing something healthy as a family. While my bucket list still includes getting to the full 26.219 miles while day, this year is starting the path with both myself and my kids to do something together.

Get the full scope about the BMW Dallas Marathon, Dec. 7-9, 2018 here.

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Think Arlington is nothing but ball games and bumper cars? Actually this once-called suburb is literally in the middle of it all. Here’s our guide to some of our favorite Must-Go Places to Go in Arlington.

New Must-Go Places to Go in Arlington

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Candlelite Inn Restaurant

Arlington Museum of Art

Actually there are several murals throughout Downtown Arlington, so take your town when you ’round the corner because you’ll never know where you’ll find them (like this one at Urban Union!)

Urban Union

Legal Draft

The Tipsy Oak

Inspirations Catering and Gourmet Food Shop

Sugar Bee Sweets Bakery

4 Kahunas Tiki Bar

Other new places not to miss in Arlington:

Ready to ride around Arlington in style? Then buy a car the smart way with these #mamachallenge tips.

In the market to buy car? At some point most of us are, so learn How to Buy a Car the Smart Way.

Define Your Need

Size:

Budget:

Dealbreakers:

Nice-to-Haves:

Research

Paying for It

New / Preowned

Lease vs. Own

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Feel like you’re always busy? Feel like you’re not busy enough? Quit the comparisons and stop the Business of Being Busy.

Like Lionel says, these Apple Cinnamon Biscuits are “easy like Sunday morning” (and so good to eat, too.)

Description

Ingredients

Instructions

Christmas is hard work. Take out the stress with Happy Cards and let the elves do the dirty work for a change.

McDonalds gets into the spirit with its #McGiveBack campaign this holiday benefiting the community with Pennies for Pounds, RMHC’s Scholars Scholarship, and Veteran’s Day.

Veterans Day, Nov. 11, 2018

Pennies for Pounds

RMHC’s Scholars Scholarship

Life may already seem like a race, but the BMW Dallas Marathon is the one all of you can win. Register now for new family events before the price increases! #RunBMWDALLAS.

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