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Real Solutions for Real Parents by Autumn Rose Reo
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| Not me, but totally wanted everything around her neck! |
| I’ll do the laundry with a smile if I can do it with that tiara! |
| Virgins Saints & Angels makes it fashionable to wear dragons, daggers and spiders year-round. |
you say Valentine’s Day, my pretty!?!
You too can get your little paws on this line. And if you have a little time on Friday, Feb. 8 from 1-4 p.m, you can also meet the lady who made fairytales come to life with the Virgins Saints & Angels’ Cheryl Finnegan at Swag. The global trunk show runs until Sunday, Feb. 10 or you can always order a piece online at Swag!
I’m often asked why I started blogging.
Like many moms, it was a way to document my feelings as a mom and all the “things” that come with it. For me, it was actually a therapeutic band-aid/call-to-action and I felt like I was obligated to share my story and experience as a new mother of a beautiful son that also was born with a congenital heart defect.
That was almost five years ago — and today I have an even more beautiful son with an amazing, caring and relatively healthy heart. And I’m still blogging.Thankfully, it wasn’t the worst thing ever written and it resonated with other moms who like me, felt overwhelmed, undereducated and totally alone. Somehow, our story helped us connect so we could feel like we weren’t the only ones together.
It’s not as healthy as yours or mine, but no longer do I fair daily that he is turning blue. No longer do I have to keep him home in “a bubble” to shield him from illnesses like the flu. No longer do I have to think that he could stop breathing at night. My worries for the most part, thankfully, are just like any other parents, for now.
But I certainly don’t take that for granted. Each year since my little man was born I’ve tried to make sure to do what I can to educated others about congenital heart defects (CHDs). Sometimes I’ve gone big with ceremonies, mayoral proclamations or TV segments. Sometimes I’ve written an article. But it’s hard no matter what. It’s like opening a wound that I wish would heal and go away. Unfortunately, it doesn’t “go away.”
I’m reminded each time I take off his shirt or give him a bath. It will never go away. And neither should my efforts.
But I’m not the only mom of a child with a CHD. What I thought was such a rare thing since I had never heard of it until Jackson, actually is more common than most people think with 1 in 100 babies born every year with a CHD. And thankfully with new technology and awareness, more of those children, like my son, are born and live a wonderful life with their CHD. But that’s not enough. There still could be more children saved – as infants in utero and as teens with undetected CHDs with a simple screening.
Unfortunately, these screenings haven’t made the priority list for many state governments or there isn’t enough funding to make this possible for the public. Thankfully, committed parents and organizations have banded together to offer these screenings and awareness as much as possible, but that’s not enough.
So now as my little baby turns into a boy, I’m faced with new adventures as a mom. And there will be many other adventures as a mom of a CHD kiddo. Just recently I asked my son if he knew what the mark on his chest was.
Of course, Mama,” he said. “It’s because so many people love me, my heart got too big.”
While one day I’ll need to explain that a little more, his explanation is better than anything I could ever explain.
That’s today’s challenge. And as he gets older there will be more. I can only hope I can continue to carry the mama challenge torch in efforts to reach one more child and one more mom affected by CHD.
To learn more about CHDs, please see: http://tchin.org/aware.
Looking for more stories of families affecting by CHDs, just take a look here.
Want-it Wednesdays:
I received one or more of the mentioned products for the sole purpose of this review. No other compensating was given and all opinions expressed are 100 percent my own. (Accordance with FTC’s 16 CFR Part 255, “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”)
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Me Mondays:
There are many days that I wish I could be a member of the Real Housewives of enterprise…on Bravo. The makeup, the hair, the clothes and of course, the houses! I’m a huge fan of the original The Real Housewives of Orange County and The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, their lives seem so different than this real housewife back in DFW…
Or is it?
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| Heather Dubrow from RHOC (photo: Bravo) |
Here’s a little bit of what I learned from our chat:
About the Show:
Her husband, a plastic surgeon, has also been on reality TV shows like The Swan, really wanted her to do the show. Now she’s glad she did and she’s happy to have met the girls. “Tamara, Gretchen and Vicky are great gals.”
[Ok, my hubby isn’t a surgeon on TV, but he’s a real cut up…tee-hee!]
About her Personal Philosophy:
“I’m not perfect – I have a beautiful life that I am thankful for, but I am a real person.”
[I hear you sister!]
On Family:
“Our family go-to meal is one of my favorites to make – it’s breakfast for dinner with biscuits, eggs and bacon. It’s great because we all come together and enjoy it as a family.”
[Did you read the part about her making the food and no chef? In the winter I love to make breakfast for dinner. What’s your favorite go-to dish in a quickie?]
On Her Looks:
“I’m an active person with a healthy eating. And to keep fit, I have a trainer 2 times a week.”
[I try to be this girl everyday. I think we all do, right?]
On Her Must Haves:
One thing she must have is her mobile phone and a big bag of Twizzlers!
[I HAVE to have my Iphone and I bet I can always find a bag of Goldfish!]
See I totally could be on a Real Housewives’ candidate. Sign me up!
Season 8 of The Real Housewives of Orange County is set to premiere in late March! So make sure to check your listings for more info or follow them on Facebook.
Sharing Saturdays:
“If you’re the kind of woman who spends an average weekday lounging around, then feel free to put this book back on the shelf. This is a fitness regimen for women who don’t have an hour or more to work out each day.”
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| Dallas mom/daughter duo Nanci Masso and Faryn Clark of Biosanes. |
To-Do Thursdays:
This Sunday is like the big daddy of Sundays with the SuperBowl in New Orleans! So for the next few days I’ve got food and football on the brain.
| A great recipe that the kids can do themselves! |
Can you say, “CHEAT DAY?”
Actually, you don’t have to with Cabot.
Recently, I got a special opportunity to chow down on some tasty lowfat cheese (we’re talking like 50% – 75% reduced fat) from CABOT while learning some great lowfat, kid-friendly recipes including the ones included here, Cheddar Mice and Lowfat Mac n Cheese!
| Who doesn’t like mac n cheese? Here’s a delicious lowfat recipe! |
| Looking for a crusty brown topping like on mac n cheese? Spray a little cooking spray on the top before you put in the oven and you’ll good nice and crispy! |
| Putting things in muffin tins is all the rage…make your clean up and portions easier to control with an ice cream scoop! |
While these recipes are simple, they are great ways to make your diet tastier without the fat (or the work) with Cabot Cheese. Looking for more Super Cheesy SuperBowl Recipes, check out these recipes from Cabot!
DISCLAIMER:
I received one or more of the mentioned products for the sole purpose of this review. No other compensating was given and all opinions expressed are 100 percent my own. (Accordance with FTC’s 16 CFR Part 255, “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”)
Want-it Wednesdays:
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| Could you use a little Mini-Mommy Tuck? No downtown and reasonable cheap. |